Help me understand humiliation!
cobberstuff said to thegayboybible : Thank you for your explanation of terms and meanings. I can see that words can mean different things to different people and so it is important for both submissive and dominants to talk about what particular words mean to them. It is valuable to have a vocabulary you can use and agree on. From your description I have come to the understanding that I would be a beta by your definition. “I submit because I am strong, not because I am weak.” The word “humiliation” is a puzzle to me. I guess it has its root in “humble” and that fits with how I see myself with respect to a Dom. However, the word seems to me to have the meaning of disparagement or debasement. If a Dom wants me to do something, it gives me an opportunity to express my nature and, if it pleases him, it fulfills me. But it seems to have the connotation of being forced to do something that is purposefully belittling. Have you any thoughts? Hey there! Thanks for the question. I’m so glad I