Sir Alex's BDSM Advice

Hi. I'm still very new to your blog. I just read your post "Faggot, Omega, Boy" and I'm trying to see where I fit in this. Because some times ago, I realized that what I truly crave is to be humiliated, to feel violated, may be below others like the omega. I like to please my superior, but, more than that, I wanna please him in the most degrading way because it turn me on and because it turn him on too. I want him to use my body, control me and push me further into my submission and degradation. I wrote that article to get dominants to realize that not all boys are the same cookie cutter shape. That boys are different and need to be treated differently depending on their motivations for submission. Treating boys the same was one of the biggest mistakes I made as a dominant early on. But to directly answer your question, that particular mo...

Hello BetaBreeder, my master is a 95% dom. We have been in a consensual 'abusive' relationship for 5 years. I love your blog and have 2 questions: 1. I get bred by my master 4 - 6 times a day. I really love receiving his cum and would like it to be kept in me by way of a butt-plug. My master doesn't want this because he says it makes me slack-assed. Do you know any other ways to keep cum in a boy's pussy? 2. My master is v sadistic and canes me every other day. Do you have tips on skin care? -L. Hello Boy L,  Thanks very much, I always love to hear that my blog is a favorite of readers! 1) Holy shit, 4-6 times a day is a LOT. I don’t know how either of you get anything done! A butt plug was a fine idea, I mean you don’t have to put one that’s a recreation of Dawson’s fist in there or anything, but something to plug the opening would work. I...

Have you/would you control or restrict your musclebitch's diet and food to achieve your vision of the perfect sex body? The muscle bitches I’ve played with came to me sexy. No, I wouldn’t control their diet or food, I’d rather insist they simply stick to whatever diet is keeping them looking as sexy as they are. Whether it’s diet, clothing, protocol, or anything else that granular where I have tried controlling every little aspect of a man… I found it tedious. It is a sexy concept but in execution there’s basically zero down time and it wore me down. In fact, the experience of having done it actually killed a lot of the sexy because now all I see is the invested work and so much goddamn time. There are men out there that both want and need that level of control over them and there are men who need to have that control. I am not one of them. But I respec...

What would you say to a sub who has to be a alpha in the work place and after a long hard day at work has a hard time letting the walls back down to be the sub to his master? That’s a really great question. I have a few thoughts, but if you can… I’d like to ask you why is it hard to let the walls down when you get home? Is this something you’ve always had an issue with? Is it hardest during the work week? Are there any times when entering subspace is easy for you? I still have some general thoughts but if I could have an answer to those questions I could probably be a bit more specific 1.       Relax   - When you come home, designate some time to decompress from your day (however you do that). A Master is a being of many endless wants. If he cares about you he needs to give you some space when you get home for however long you need. The most important thing to remember about subs an...