Sir Alex's BDSM Advice

I have a question now I know that some like to be dominated and they make it subtly known because they have experience and do so. But how you stop someone who thinks you’re a bottom without any or whatever from approaching you like that and I mean on apps and in real life. To help you understand  a little more I'm trying to find what I like best since I just became Bi but all I get are the overly aggressive dudes saying things from "you know you want to bottom for me" to "you know you want this" I'm kinda new but that shit just rubs the wrong way and I want to believe I can actually  find someone or something with someone that help me understand but I worry that I have to deal with that shitty aggression. So, my real question is that normal or do I just have bad luck? - Anon Hey there anon,  I'm a little uncertain if this applies to you. You wrote: "I just became Bi." And I’m unclear if you've decided the label fits you or y...

I am and always have been a total bottom with a small dick who gets intensely turned on by thinking of myself as inferior to certain other men, and naturally submissive in their presence. In fact it's pretty much the only way I get aroused. But another part of me continues to feel like there's something wrong with me for having those feelings. What's your perspective on that? I think the important first step would be to wrestle with why exactly you feel it’s wrong to have those feelings? Ever heard the folk advice when it comes to dating: “Don’t fuck on the first date?” Even if you personally stick to that advice, I’m sure you know others who don’t and have very successful romantic lives. Folk advice You know what’s also a bit of folk advice? “Everyone is equal.” To be absolutely precise regarding what I mean is: not everyone WANTS to be equal. That’s perfectly OK too. Why? Because it’s directly related to ...

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