I've found a cuckolding situation and I'm a switch. How do I do both at once?

Hello Sir, Recently had a cuck contact me looking for a Sir for his hubby. Said his hubby was attracted to me & wanted the opportunity to serve me, a Sir, for his first time as a boy. Yesterday was the first engagement with the boy & he did a nice job of following instructions and opening up about his need to serve. I'm a vers Sir/boy/faggot and move from one to the other. I understand both cuck & boy perspective but, never had at the same time in a couple. Any advice navigating them both? Thx U

Thanks for the question! I reached out to this follower just to clarify a bit on the question. He told me that he is looking for advice to dominate two people in a couple at once.

- The most important piece of advice is, I think, give both something to do - The challenge when dominating two boys is giving both enough attention and multitasking of course. So to make dominating easier for you assign the boy a task that will take him some time to complete. Examples might include: eat my ass and do a thorough job, Lick my nuts to get my jizz churning for your husband, and lubricate his ass with your tongue and then my cock!

- Think out your tasks - Whatever it is you’re going to assign to either guy, think out a couple of tasks you like in advance, just four would probably be enough. You want to do this because there’s going to be a lot to process at the moment, and anything you come up with before hand is what your mind is going to grasp most readily when the time comes.

- Try to focus on just one kink for each guy - Your goal here is to really focus on just one kink for each guy. It will help you figure out ways to keep both guys engaged more easily since you’re focusing hard on just one kink. I’ve tried coming up with a really varied routine when I was a bull for a couple, I had bondage, paddling, and electro. What I should’ve realized was that I was there to do the cuckolding more so than anything else. That meant that just focusing on kinks that directly related to the “main event” (as it were) were most important. Some easy examples can include for the cuck can include: Cbt, paddling, humiliation, and being human furniture for the fucking.

- Engage the boy against the cuck - You’ll see this sort of thing a lot in porn, but it bears repeating because there’s no sense in trying to change a tactic that works so well. Get the boy you’re fucking to insult and demean the cuck. You can have him do so directly (for example: His dick is so much better than yours!) or indirectly (example: my husband could never fuck me like this). you want to have the boy vocalizing as much as possible how much he’s enjoying it and how irrelevant his cuck husband is. When I  did this, I made sure to reward the boy every time he was cruel to his cuck husband. I’d finger him harder, or jam my dick against his prostate, or even give him a kiss and a wry smile. Do this to show the boy just how much it turns you on.

Best of luck with the couple and let us know how it goes!

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