How do I play with my distant pup?!

Wonderful blog, I sincerely mean it. I'd like to ask a question: I've just found a new puppy (unfortunately pretty distant from me) and since it's a new thing for me, having a long distance master-puppy relationship I've got no idea (ok, maybe I've got some but not really creative ones) about how to play with him and make him serve me. Do you have any advice about what could a master do in my position? Maybe an advice about the idea in general P.S. do you have any methods in naming a puppy?

Thank you very much! You’re too kind!
I hate to say it, but I actually don’t exactly know what to do with him either. Long distance play is something I could never really get a handle on. So I’m not sure how much help I can be. I think that ultimately this is going to be a good experience for you. Creativity comes easiest when you have restrictions imposed upon you. But since you did ask here are some thoughts I have had on the matter.
There’s really only one thing I’ve done long distance. I have had boys remove underwear when they’re about to drive home and put it in their mouth for the entire trip. I also had one put his underwear in the band of his pants so it was showing and get something from a convenience store with explicit instructions to get out or not do it if he felt threatened or overwhelmed. I also had them take pics driving (when safe) so I could see that they did it.
For you maybe the better way to think of it is to use this long distance situation to try and think about him from another angle. Imagine you ARE in the same room. He wants you bad. So you decide to tease him. You’re going to make him perform for you without ever touching you to try and entice you into fucking him. How would you have him do that? What would your instruction be?
Imagine you have a real pup and you want to teach him tricks. Try doing the same thing, only make what constitutes a successful trick more rigid with less margin for error so that he has to maintain an exact pose and you get to dictate when he gets a treat.
So just try and apply imagination about what you would actually do with him if you had him. It’s OK to ask him for suggestions and get a bit of guidance on puppies. Dominants can, do, and should take opportunities to learn from submissives who
I have actually looked for puppy names online and I found a list which I read to one potential puppy. He chose his favorite name from the list and I approved it. Aside from that puppy, I have only had a small number of potential subs who were puppies and I haven’t actually had one over to play with so unfortunately, I do not feel authoritative enough to say much else about puppies.

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