What do I do with my body hair?!

Hello, sir. I'm a boy from Phoenix, AZ new to the beta life, and I have a question regarding body hair on a fag. Is it permissible for a fag to have a fair amount of body hair? Even on their privates and ass? Thank you, Sir, for your time.

I get this question a lot.

The answer of whether it’s permissible or not comes down to two things.

First, how do YOU feel about the body hair? Do you like it? Is it troublesome to keep it trim? If you feel that it’s best for you to keep the body hair because it can get ingrown in the skin, you just think it’s sexy, or for any reason you feel strongly about… KEEP IT! If it matters enough to you that you have a preference about it, i’d suggest not serving a dominant who says that you have to shave/wax the hair to serve him long term. You may feel differently, but i do think it’s reasonable to ask a boy to keep the hair trim at some length.

Second, how does the Sir you want to serve feel about the body hair? Whenever you’re sending pictures or putting them up online. Make sure they’re as representative of you as possible. Do not shy away from posting clear pictures of yourself because there are a number of guys who think men look weird with shaved/waxed body hair and will actively seek out hairier guys.

I am betting you’re wondering about this because you don’t look quite like the porn you see throughout tumblr? If no one has told you yet, porn is not an accurate representation of sex. It’s performance art. Embrace being you authentically and men will flock to your confidence!

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